SEX DURING PREGNANCY

It is amazing how people live with this MYTH that Sex is not permissible during pregnancy. 
This article will address five Frequently Ask Questions about Sex during Pregnancy. 

Can I have sex while I'm pregnant? 

Absolutely. With a normal pregnancy, you can keep doing it right up until your waters break.

While sex during a normal pregnancy is fine, there are some important circumstances, in which you may be advised not to have sex. These include if you have:

• a low-lying placenta or bleeding or if you have a history of miscarriage
• abdominal pains or crampsif you have spotting or bleeding in early pregnancy
• broken waters
• a history of cervical weakness

You may also be advised to avoid sex during pregnancy if your husband has genital herpes or any other form of std's. If you catch genital herpes for the first time during pregnancy there is a small risk that it could affect your developing baby. 

Will sex harm my baby? 

You won't hurt your baby by making love, even with your partner on top. The thick mucus plug that seals the cervix helps guard against infection. The amniotic sac and the strong muscles of the uterus (womb) also protect your baby. Though your baby may move about a lot after orgasm, it's because of your pounding heart, not because he knows what's happening or feels pain. 

Will sex feel as good while I'm pregnant? 

Some women, free from worries about conception and contraception, have a great sex life during pregnancy. Increased blood flow to the pelvic area can cause engorgement of the genitals and heighten the sensation. But the same engorgement may give you an uncomfortable feeling of fullness after intercourse. 

Is oral sex safe? 

Yes, normal oral sex won't harm you or your baby and many consider it a good solution if intercourse is thought to be too risky.

Which positions are the most comfortable during pregnancy? 

Here are some tips for making love while you're pregnant:

• Lie sideways. Having your spouse on top requires increasingly creative gymnastics as your tummy swells. But lying partly sideways allows your husband to keep most of his weight off your uterus.
• Use the bed as a prop. Your bulge isn't an obstacle if you lie on your back at the side or foot of the bed with your knees bent, and your bottom and feet perched at the edge of the mattress. Your husband can either kneel or stand in front of you.
• Lie side-by-side in the spoons position, which allows for only shallow penetration. Sex should be gentle during pregnancy. Deep thrusts can become uncomfortable as the months pass.
• Get on top of your spouse. It puts no weight on your abdomen and allows you to control the depth of penetration.
• Try sitting on your spouse's lap as he sits on a [sturdy] chair. This puts no weight on your uterus.
• Lubricating creams or gels may irritate your skin and cause allergic reactions. It's therefore best to avoid using them during pregnancy unless advised otherwise by your doctor. It's a good idea to clean your pelvic area thoroughly after you make love. Wipe dry with a clean towel or tissue paper.

PERSONAL OPINION(experience)

1. I enjoyed sex while pregnant and even did till two days to delivery. It was fun and interesting all the way. I feel it was helpful in keeping me fit and flexible.
2. It did not harm my boys so am sure it wont harm yours.
3. Sex was beautiful and very interesting. Seriously if you are not being stopped due to medical reasons then go ahead.  it was very enjoyable. I had a very wonderful partner, so i advocate you discuss freely with your spouse about it.
4. Oral sex is cool, you are missing out if you have never tried it.
5. As regards positions the first three were okay for me and the remain three i cant say.

Have faith - where there's a will, there's a way. With a little experimenting, you and your spouse are sure to find a technique that works for you.